I’m going to try a different approach to posting today. Let me know if you like it.
I have never been to Japan, but many things come to mind when I think of it. I imagine the crisp air of fujisan. The roar of trains, such as the shinkansen, as they come whooshing by. The fragrant smells of sakura petals as they fall to the ground in spring. The greenery of a small island nation that gets more than its share of rain, and the fragrant smells of grasses and blossoms on the hills, meshing seamlessly with the smell of traditional Japanese food, such as fish and rice. Even the tall buildings of Tokyo seem to come with a certain kind of refreshing energy that I haven’t really found in American downtown cores. Of course this is all in my imagination, but I’m not talking about reality.
I also see the darkness of a culture that values conformity over individuality. I see a darkness that is difficult to fathom for me, a society that seems to have a lot of very flashy lights, amazing culture and food, and underneath is a vein of darkness that takes your breath away when you even begin to see it for what it is.
In my mind, Japan is a very beautiful, and a very dark, country. Both the beauty and the darkness sometimes bring tears, and each defines Japan completely in its own way. I don’t think Japan would be entirely the same without its darkness, just as it would not be the same without its beauty.
But to understand Japan, one must understand its darkness. Yes, one must appreciate the wonderful things about Japanese culture – their almost boundless creativity, their respect for living things and the land around them, their ability to persevere and even triumph in the face of what seem sometimes insurmountable odds – but to see Japan through the eyes of their entertainment and tourism industry is to completely misunderstand who they are.
As I learn more I have come to respect them for what they are, and I’ve also come to a profound sadness. They are an ancient and beautiful culture, and to solely define them through the entertainment they present to the world is to disrespect them profoundly. To truly love something, or someone, you must understand their failings as well. It is a profoundly sad thing when you realize that the person – or culture – that you love is flawed, imperfect – even profoundly so – but until one understands the warts, one cannot truly love.
This has been a difficult thing for me to grapple with as I’ve been studying Japanese and learning about the Japanese culture. The veins of darkness are very dark indeed. But even so, I am not too different from them, and they are not too different from me. The darkness runs through all humanity, not always taking the same form, but being just as dark all the same.
Maybe someday I will see the beautiful white and red trees with the sakura petals falling, and I will remember that, for the Japanese people, the blooming of the cherry trees indicates graduation, the passing of time, and new beginnings. And I will remember that the darkness does not have to stay dark, and the next year, the petals will also bloom, no matter what the previous year has brought. And I will see all of the people hanami, and perhaps they will have a similar thought. They are constrained by their darkness, but they are not defined by it.
And perhaps, not just in spite of their darkness, but because of it, I will grow to love them.